A mother named Heidi Johnson decided to address her son Aaron’s behavior with a handwritten letter. She initially posted it on Facebook for her friends but was surprised when it went viral. However, she has no regrets about it becoming public.
The letter was directed at her 13-year-old son, who had been treating her more like a roommate than a parent. To make her point, Johnson gave him a detailed bill listing expenses for rent, food, and other costs totaling over $700—demonstrating what life would be like if he truly wanted independence.
She signed the letter with “Love, Mom,” emphasizing that her actions came from a place of care. In a follow-up post, she reassured people that she never actually expected Aaron to pay the bill. Her goal was simply to teach him gratitude and responsibility. “I’m not going to put my 13-year-old on the street if he can’t pay rent,” she explained. “I just want him to respect his home, take care of his space, and appreciate the blessings he has.”
The letter was prompted by Aaron lying about finishing his homework. When Johnson threatened to cut off his internet access, he responded, “Well, I’m making money now,” referring to the small earnings from his YouTube channel—far from enough to cover real-life expenses.
Despite the online attention, Johnson and her son maintain a strong relationship. She shared that he has apologized multiple times, and they continue to have open conversations.
Since sharing her post, Johnson has received messages from other parents seeking advice. “It seems to have opened a door,” she said. “People feel comfortable reaching out, whether to ask for guidance, vent, or simply share their own experiences with me.”
