Happiness and well-being in the family—what a wonderful, antiquated idea! Although we are always taught to put the needs of others before our own, occasionally self-interest is necessary. Introducing Betty, a 72-year-old widow who has been saving for a luxurious vacation with her sister as a last-minute treat for years. However, her family determined that her savings should be used to pay for her grandson’s medical care once he became very ill. The so-called monster, Betty, had different ideas. Let’s explore the humor and drama that followed.
With its overwhelming frustration and resistance, Betty’s letter reads likе a self-care manifesto:
This is the letter from Betty:
I am a 72-year-old widow who has been accumulating money for a cruise with my sister for years.
My eight-year-old grandson fell quite unwell recently. They want me to give them my funds because the treatments are expensive. I apologized, but I’m not going to give up on my happiness. Given my age, this may be my final allotted time travel.
My son told me, “From now on, you’re not allowed to ever see your grandkids,” and I was dubbed a dreadful mother.
His choice was sudden and brutal, and it surprised me. However, my son grinned and said, “This is the last time you will see my family or me. I hope your journey is well worth it.
Was it a self-serving decision on my part? Can I not use the money I’ve been accumulating for years to indulge a little in life?
Your opinions would be much valued.
Regards, Betty
The Anxiety of Setting Your Own Priorities!
